blackout at the (life)house

i know i haven't been updating my blog for quite sometime now. peeps in the office are bugging me to do so... well, thanks to symantec and smart bro, my connection to the www is very much altered. last update was may??? talk about hiatus.

what i do most recently if i was able to connect is read ELI's blog. i just so adored the guy. and i kinda crush him (♥). anyways, half of the year already passed, few days now and it will be august.

july has been a super month for me so far. 1st was aj's bday (july 12th), we had dinner at her BF's resto in kamuning--77 cafe. food was great and we had a blast laughing.. then julz' (darwin's colleague) celebrated his bday on the 19th, which we happened to rock BED MALATE. as a first-timer, i super enjoyed the place--though the entrance was kinda off-the budget. but the guys there were kinda yummy, just don't let them talk.. hahaha!!!!

then this weekend...i just could not passed up the chance to blog and blab about what a great, great, super fantastic, fabulous, weekend i had. up to this point i am still implementing my no-talk-for the-whole-day sunday. i mean after shouting, screaming and yelling at the top of my lungs for the past 2 days, my throat deserves some rest.

then friday, the 25th was butt-skin-and-all-that-male-glory day. the bi-annual bench undies show was held in araneta. the show was not that good compared to the last undie show (UNDERSTATEMENT). it started SOOO DAMN LATE! a sheer 1.5 HOURS! BUT BUTT IS BUTT NO MATTER WHAT! and oh, did i foget about BULGES? hehehe...

24 hrs after, i was again back in araneta this time for some rocking music. it was LIFEHOUSE's concert--the bands first time in manila. i was with my 3 girl friends, flora and miles. we were there early so we got to get some good seats. the show started about 10 minutes late. there was opening churva games from the sponsors. then came the band and the crown went frenzy! the whole big dome was literally pounding! they belted out hits like HANGING BY A MOMENT, YOU & ME, FIRST TIME, WHATEVER IT TAKES, and other hits. the three of us were already hoarse. i was also singing like hell when YOU & ME came. i mean i super love this song that when the band themselves performed the song on an episode in SMALLVILLE (season 4, episode 19/SPIRIT) i watched that episode 10 TIMES!!! them singing that song all over again brought back that tingling sensation i felt when i watched them on TV. i was like a 16-yr old female teen giggling like someone's blowing feather-like kisses on my vajayjay!!!! hahaha!!!

will post some pix. some photos courtesy of PEP (philippine entertainment portal) for the bench show. i forgot to mention that because we were so early at the bench show, my camera got confiscated, super bummer!

ciao july! come friday it wil be august...time flies by so swiftly. 100-or-so days in it will be xmas again... time to hide... hehehe...

posting some pics...

[from the BLACKOUT. some photos c/o PEP (http://www.philippineentertainmentportal.com/)]

(enchong dee in green)

(jc de vera) (diether)

(mouth-watering bruce)

(maggie wilson and carlene aguilar)

(marco alcaraz)

(john hall, still has the HOTS)

(RnB prince jay-r)

(the bold jay cuenca) (angelica)

(the Über-beautiful priscilla)

(wendell, still looking hot)

(the "BIG" john)

(luke jicain, brent javier, and a random model)

(the models) ("bulge" boys)

(look it's luke again)

[LIFEHOUSE CONCERT]

(jason wade of lifehouse)

(the band smiling)

sa-TOUR-day

last saturday, went roaming after shift. first, we had breakfast at salcedo village's . it's like a weekend market at the back near PBCom Tower that sells basically everything.. from , then bummer, web symantec here at the office kicked in... grrrrr... will have to continue this at home..
as i was saying, this place sells everything... from , ,, . we roam around looking for something to buy or to eat. then we decided to have . it was on the spot and twas really and mouthwatering. devour the burger and we enjoyed with a delicious side dish .

after this, we went to the Über-hip . we're the meets . we strolled and took more

after sometime we ended up in . i was able to buy some stuffs from (shoes) and a shirt from people are people. there was this mega sale that we could not just enough of, so we ended up going home around 3pm! it was really fn and exhausting. i was so tired that when i woke up, it was already 1am. well, darwin was not around so i kinda maximized my independence even for just some hours..

parting

change is the only constant thing in this universe. part of life's process that is inevitable. thing's change for good or bad. people come and go. holding on and letting go...
at the start of the year, a good friend, apple, left the company. that was a change we were all expecting. as i predicted before this '08 will include some changes and movements here at work. now there's pau...
it won't take a rocket scientist or nostradamus to see her moving out as well. i mean she's apple's partner. so sooner or later she will be resigning as well. i was just so shocked that she announced the inevitable soonest. this was her email to us that really saddened me and the rest of the gang...

"JUST WANT TO TAKE SOME MINUTES OF YOUR PRECIOUS TIME
I WILL MISS YOU GUYS/GALS.. EFFECTIVE 03/27/08, I WILL NO LONGER WORK HERE. I HAVE SUBMITTED MY RESIGNATION LETTER...THANKS FOR ALL THE SUPPORT, THE MEM’RIES AND THE TIME WE SPENT. WE SHARED, LAUGHED AND CRIED. GOOD OR BAD. THANKS TO YOU I HAVE STAYED IN
THIS COMPANY FOR MORE THAN 2 YRS. I NEED TO LEAVE BECAUSE I
NEED TO FOCUS ON MY REAL GOAL, TO ACCOMPLISH SOMETHING IN
MY LIFE. I’LL BE WORKING IN AN ARCHITECTURAL FIRM AND HOPEFULLY WILL STAY IN THIS INDUSTRY. THANKS FOR THE MEMORIES, IT’S WORTH REMEMBERING THANKS FOR THE PRESENCE, FOR JUST BEING THERE
WHEN I NEED ASSISTANCE, SUPPORT AND ADVICE. WHEN I NEED
A FRIEND TO CRY ON, TO SHARE MY THOUGHTS/IDEAS YOU ARE ALWAYS
THERE...SOON I’LL BE FACING CHALLENGES AND I HOPE THIS WILL PASS
(WITH MY NEW JOB, I GUESS) AND I’M SURE THAT I’LL MISS YOU, ALL OF
YOU.."

and this nearly made me cry. pau is my wavemate here. we're closer than don. we've seen each other cry, laugh, grow, do some bitchy and crazy stuffs, and now this. yep, i have plans of resigning myself but not this soon. i just felt that a part of me was taken by pau's leaving. she's one of the reasons why i am still here in IBM. as what kalay said, life here is becoming very routinary, which is fast becoming puke-worth... sickening even. well that's how call center life is i guess... my superfriends here are a few good fellas that somehow alleviate this routinary life. there are some things in life that you desperately wanna let go but so afraid to do so because it is becoming so comfy that you become part of it. change is a word that terrifies us. especially me, all my life i have been so afraid to throw cushions in the wind. mainly because there are people--loved ones--who depend on me. it sucks almost all the time. but i guess better be the dependable one than a wasted bum. when i think about it, it all boils down to how far you're willing to go to make sacrifices.
to pau, wherever you will go, i --we-- will always be here for you. to thumbelina, the future architect who will help me interior decorate my house, carpe diem! sieze the day! i will surely miss you, l'il girl...

sleeplessness

i've heard somewhere that genes is something that is inherited from our parents, or from past generations of the family. good genes, bad genes, watchamacallit, it's a thing that is somehow inevitable. take for example my height. bad genes. i mean my folks are not tall so i followed in their footsteps. then my patience, which i know i got from my mom. sucks sometimes though this is a good side of me that i often hate as well. another bad genes my being so-light sleeper. sometimes i can even sustain 2 days without any sleep!!! which is a very, very bad genes i got from my dad..
since i started to become independent, sleep is something i am very deprived of. i can survive a day with as much as only 3-4 hrs of sleep. sometimes even 2 hrs!! i recall when i was in high school my dad, as a taxi driver, could survive days without sleep. with caffeine and cigarette as his best allies, not to mention, night-long gambling, the man could even drive around town to run an errand. now, a not-so proud heir of this behavior i really found my sleepless habit very, very irritating.
certain factors are affecting this sleep-thingy issue i am having, according to studies as i have searched the net. i know in myself that there are certain situations in my life right now that can attribute to this. i made a list as stated below...

• i worry too much - way too much even. i'm this type that i take things too seriously.. when some things bother me, i take it to bed. i just lay there, pretending to be asleep but my mind and my whole being is widely awake. people say that if you will your mind to think of any other thoughts aside from the matter you're so worrying about, you wouldn't think of the matter at hand at all. well, guess what? for me it seldom works. looks like my mind has a mind of its own. damn, the more i "force" my mind not to think of something, the more it keeps on crawling to my subconscious.
• insecurities - this has been an on going issue with my self for as long as my adult mind can recall. my height, acceptance is what i think the best solution for this. then my teeth, ortho i know...soon... my body built. diet, exercise and all that they say. but guess it's so easy to just splurge, binge, and just lie down and sleep, and wallow in the fact that i am big fat loser. i mean i am not the obese-type-fat fat, get the picture? i have excess baggage here and there, yeah.. the only exercise (if it can be considered) is sex. hahaha!!
• bills, bills, bills - this is something that even destiny's child can relate with. telephone bills, credit card bills, loans, water bills, electricity bills... did i mention CREDIT CARDS BILLS? yes, and a lot at that. when i first started working, plastic power is something that i was very much dreaming, craving, and coveting. now i am starting to wish that i can go back in time wherein cash payment is a necessity i can afford. our cards are not all maxed out but almost half of our monthly salary goes down to visa and mastercard. well, to think about it, if it weren't for our cards, we wouldn't be able to go places we've been to. and of course we wouldn't be able to afford some luxuries in life. i think it all boils down to using plastic power less. and lesser... swipe and be wiped out...
• in laws - need to say more? i rest my case. there are some things that no matter how hard we try to change, our efforts are just not worth it. for years now, i spent my mental energy wanting them to change and to simply appreciate all the hard work darwin and i did for the family. but there are just some people who seems not to be contented in what other people can give. i may sound and look ungrateful to them, which takes a toll in me because i try hard to please everybody though i look plastic and untrue to them and to myself. i just think i really have to rest this case.. no more mental stress...
• work - it's a proven fact that call center job is sooo stressing. take customers venting, and cursing the hell out, shouting... what have you got? palm slamming on the desk. cursing as well while customer is on-hold and muted. i have been in this business for 5 yrs now, but more often than not i still could not get the heck of how to cope with it. add to the fact that i wanted to grow with the company, but certain factors hinders me. politics, unfair opportunities, kiss-ass colleauges.... if it weren't for the fact that i'm being paid well, iw ould have dragged my ass outta here. then again, i am an undergrad, so that leaves me no choice as well. having a job means you need to cope with stress as well..
• health - prevailing factor of my sleeplessness. i have this notion most of the time that my body is deteriorating. i get to bed thinking if i will still be able to wake up after a couple of hours. well if you think about it, perhaps the reason why i am so sickly is due to the fact that i am not getting enough rest and sleep. science says that when we sleep our body regenerates and rejuvenates. how i wish to be able to feel so refresh whenever i wake up. the last time i was able to sleep for full 8 hrs i guess was when i was a toddler. or perhaps when i was still a baby drinking milk in a feeding bottle..

i made this list which was also suggested by someone who calls herself a sleep therapist. she suggested that in order to get a good night sleep,we need to clear our head and free our minds with unwanted thoughts. i made this blog last night, i just was not able to finish it. i got this suggestion from the sleep therapist's den to do some breathing techniques which i applied today and it somehow helped. with this issue going on, i think that three solutions to my problem are the ff: LOVE MYSELF MORE, BE CONTENT, and BE A LITTLE BIT SELFISH.

...::and the saying goes::...

"Stop worrying about tomorrow, sufficient for today has its own worries..."

GLORIA

this is in consideration of the recently held rally here in ayala ave. really annoys me, those people orchestrating this caucus for the same apparent reasons. they're singing the same songs which now becomes so damn irritating! not to mention that it's causing so much inconvenience to the metro by congesting the streets! especially here in the business district.
so in light of this, i know that if i am the present president of the republic, i will not step down...way one or another. i will bet my ass on that...
us superfriends, came up with the idea on things that we--i, well i was the one who came up with the idea (amen to that...)--would have done if i were the president of the country amidst an on going rally.

1. shopping spree at glorietta... better yet greenbelt 4.. or GB5!
2. fly on a chopper and spread 100-peso bill like a confetti... balato for the "kickbacks" my family allegedly got from the ZTE deal
3. have a relaxing spa at the mandalay spa of mandarin oriental or the thai spa in shangrila (dunno the name, though), or at the spa
4. get a new hair cut and get my nail done.
5. play golf at manila golf club.
6. stroll in serendra
7. dine al-fresco in greenbelt
8. fly away to china with abalos and the gang.. perhaps go to macau or HK for a night. and have a shopping spree as well.
9. announced on national TV that i am not stepping down with all smile.

and the bomb of it all..
10. tell the filipino people that there will be a FREE concert of the DIVAS...mariah, madonna, whitney, celine, and of course BEYONCè...with the spice girl at the fort open field. hahaha!!!! :))

so there goes my being a political revolutionist... i'm neutral, believe me. i'm not into that whole nine yards of politics.. the whole hulaballo (did i spell it right??) of people-gov't relationship...
i just want those people rallying to get a life... politics is a very dirty and messy game. only pigs dwell in the mud, and enjoy playing in the dirt...

LOVE

"Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but NOT the
essence..."

--Vincent Van Goh

for me, this has got to be the most fitting words that could describe what love
really is. i am currently reading this novel entitled orosa-nakpil-malate and i so find the story very profound. it actually speaks of love in a different aspect, in the setting of the wild, crude world of gaylandia. i haven't done the book yet but i can feel every emotion pouring from it. it makes me cry, laugh, giggle, and makes me see the world of pink and a brighter color. though i envy the main character for all the escapades he went thru in that little strip of the metro.

drifting

got my certification last 02/01 from my doc friend, mitch, and i was confirmed to be fit to work.
i will have to continue this, i'm damn so sleepy right now. gotta take a power nap.