RELATIONSHIP TIP 101

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she got it somewhere from the net, here goes>>

Maybe your relationship has gone through a hard time recently, or maybe you have had problems in the past that you never want to have again. If your relationship is going to last, you’ll find that it does need to be strong, and with that in mind, you need to think about making sure that you have the tools to do so. The truth of the matter is that strong relationships do not magically come up between two people who are right for each other; it takes time, patience and work. Take some time to look at these tips for building a solid relationship.

1.Good communication

Set some time aside every week or even every day to talk about things that affect your relationship. When you are looking at a way to move forward and to get the results that you need, you’ll find that there are a number of things to keep in mind, so remember that you should talk them out. Where is your relationship going and what are you looking for out of the relationship? If your goals differer, it is better to know sooner rather than later.

2.Time for each other

When you get started with your relationship, you might find that there are many different things that you need to remember, but that spending time together is not among them. As time goes on, though, you might find that you are taking each other for granted. With that in mind, remember that you should still make time just for the two of you. How does your relationship cope when you spend time apart and how much better is it when you have spent some time together? Keep that in mind.

3.Time for yourself

One way to keep a relationship healthy is to keep yourself healthy as well. When you are looking at building a stronger relationship, look at your own health and strength. Make sure that you cn do things for yourself and that you really enjoy. When you get good time alone and when you learn about being on your own, you will be in a much better position to move forward and appreciate your time with each other as well.

4.Think about what is right for them

Remember that when you are in a relationship that you need to think about the other person. Although you might be able to take care of yourself, keep in mind that you should also occasionally step in and take care of them when they are in need. Remember that if you care about someone, the best way for you to show it is to be considerate. Take the time to put their needs first and to really make them feel special.